剩下的

爱的人离开了，剩下的会是遗憾吗？还是解脱？还是深深的祝福？
爱一个人不可是自私的拥有他，而是放手让他找到真正属于他的自由和幸福。
当自己认为给不到对方所要的一切，而另一个人却可以的时候，自卑感也就会浮现。
总会问自己很多的为什么?爱情不是一个问答卷，不是每一个问题都有解答的。有时候，不知道的答案才会让自己快乐的走下去。
爱的人给不到一个肯定，剩下的是责备
爱的人给不到你的要求，剩下的是失望
爱的人给不到你喜欢的，剩下的是生气
剩下的剩下会是离别
爱一个人，
不需要一直寻找他的行踪
不需要无时无刻和他信息
不需要每一天都通电话
不需要每一天都见面
爱一个人，
可以默默地祝福他
可以只要他开心就开心
可以是很伟大的看着他幸福
可以把想念他放在心里
可以成为他永远的聆听者
这样的爱，
又有几个人曾经为他做过？
又有几个人能够永远的记得爱的他？
时间可以冲淡一切的感觉
难道爱的感觉也可以被冲淡吗？
人会随着时间而长大
或许现在的你很难去祝福对方，
当时间过了，你会认为真正的祝福其实是爱的表现
剩下的，会是你甜甜的微笑，因为你曾经和他有过不一样的爱情！

回忆里的期待

深深地，放在心里的一个小角落。不愿让任何人知道，其实自己是曾经那么的喜欢你。喜欢看着你的模样，喜欢看着你很帅气很忙碌的样子，喜欢看着你很专注的眼神，喜欢曾经是那么闪闪发光的你。
当你曾经喜欢的人也和你告白的时候，那种感觉是开心的吗？
还是那再也不会是你要的感觉了？
当两个人陷入了爱情，顾虑的也越来越多了。
没有一个人可以那么的伟大，可以为另一半牺牲全部的一切。
期待的越多，失望也越大。
这是残酷的事实。因为期待，而得不到的时候，失落感也就出现了。曾经那么的傻，以为期待就可以得到。但是，在美好的梦也会有清醒的一刻。
如果一个爱情没有了期待，也就是不是爱情了。
曾诺，答应，都是有了条件。当这些无法实现，期待的一切，也就没了。所以，不要轻易答应不可能的可能。
很多的可能，很多的如果，让大家都活在幻想里。是一个暂时性逃避现实的字眼。一封信息，说了想念，说了爱你，也是一个假设。就只是在那一刻拥有那样的感觉而已。而不是在明天，后天，明年，后年，也会有的同样的感觉。感觉可以随着时间而流失，可以因为受了伤，而变了。
曾经，期待带了很多的欢乐，因为对方不曾让爱的人失望。总会给很多的惊喜，很多的关心。让自己好像小孩被疼爱一样。
曾经，两三天的冷战，让想念加深的很多，让自己会情不自禁的为对方想借口。
曾经，在很伤心很难过的时候，下一秒就出现在眼前。
曾经，在很害怕的时候，得到了拥抱。
曾经，在很想年的时候，对方也是有同感。
曾经，想给对方打电话，可是对方却比自己快了一步。
曾经，想为对方信息，可是对方还是先信息。
曾经的曾经，成为了如今的回忆。
在下一次的碰面，这些的曾经也只是过去里的一页。
在茫茫人海里，能够找到和自己有默契的并不容易。
能够得到无比的疼爱是幸福的。
或许在未来，这些的曾经，也会让自己反复的回想
当回忆有了模糊记忆，也就是自己已经不再怀念那些曾经了。
反而，会感激彼此的放手，彼此的祝福。
期待，下一次的期待会是开心的。

遗憾

爱一个人不一定要拥有他。
幸福本来是自私的，就是很想要占有全部的他，希望他也是一样。
可是当占有欲慢慢的深厚，就会让所爱的人呼吸不到。
那个爱也会变质了。
有人说爱情就像放线一样，慢慢的拉近慢慢的疏远。
可是，
当爱一个人而得不到他，剩下的也就是遗憾了。
可是，也有可能就是在不对的时间，遇到对的人一样。
或许短短的回忆确实就可以让你刻骨铭心，又或许，他曾经为你做过你永远也忘不了的事情，这些就足够了。
有时候不时常联络，不代表对方不想念。
想念是放在心上。
这个道理，很深奥。也不是所有人能够做得到。
爱一个你不能爱的人，会让你觉得好累好累，
你很想爱他，可是就是会有很多的可是。
是时间让大家晚了认识彼此。是距离让大家对原本的信心渐渐地少了。
是怀疑让感情淡了。是不联络，让争吵也加深了。
很多的未知数让彼此可以很珍惜见面的机会。
也就是不能拥有，而让彼此深深地留下了遗憾。

勇气

很多时侯不是每一个人都可以很容易的付出。爱你。这句话的含义其实因人而异，可以很随便地说也可以一辈子都放在心里。真的很喜欢你和爱你又有不同嘛？

What will you react?

Have you guys ever wonder what will you do once you've been reject by a girl?

Reject as in : refusing to go out with you .. reject the expensive stuff you have present to her and so on.

I believe if any of the guys out there never been rejected, you are consider as a LUCKY star! :)

What is the reason of a girl rejecting a guy's good deed?

firstly, the girl might assume that the guy is doing so with a CERTAIN PURPOSES. purpose as in want to court her/get sth frm her.

Secondly, the girl might not able to accept the gifts most probably because she doesn't want to owe anything from you,since you are a "nobody" for her. * sad case right?

Well, if you know that the girl really like a particular thing and yet she reject it from you as a gift. Perhaps, you can try to turn a big round of saying how you got the stuff instead of saying You Buy It from your allowance. Sometimes, not knowing how the gifts are from is better than knowing it. Don't you think so?

However, not all the girls tend to reject the valuable stuffs. Some they do accept it as their birthday gifts. They might request for more than what you expect too! Don't panic! even if you turn them down, it's OKAY! and never gives all the valuable items which she likes too... As you are not an ATM machine after all right? *hehe* once a while present the stuff she wants will be sufficient enough to cheer her up!

As for me, i think that if the items are usable in daily life, i will always remember who present it to me.. After all, a gift resembles a person's position in my heart. . .

Love Story - Here it begins

How to hang out with a person that you love? How to make boost your popularity within the person that you love? It can be considered as a simple task for certain girls, but not all!

Some even don't have any courage of expressing their love towards the person that he/she likes. However, as the society evolves, there's no longer a "one-way" direction of expressing love (boys showing their love to girls). Instead, it can be the other way round, where girls express their feelings towards the guys. For example: a guy might sms-ed /msn-ed you, telling you that he likes you for who you are. Instead, the girl can joke with the guy, saying that she has fall in love to him. There's normally 2 scenarios that will happen: the guys might treat it as a joke or the guys might treat it seriously.

The first step of expressing your love is always the way of getting closer to the person. Asking her/him out, treating him/her for a dinner, buying him/her little pressie to surprise thm, all these actions can lead to a great impact!

Another step might be so called "intrude" her personal life. This doesn't mean that you invade her own privacy. Instead, you can try to wait for an opportunity to cheer her up during her down time. This especially useful for guys when the girls are longing for companion to talk to and no one is trustable. So, if you guys have an honoured to talk to the girl which you like, DO APPRECIATE it and GIVE some proper advices or SHARE your own experience with her. Sharing is caring. Yes, it's true! When a girl trying to express her feeling to a person, she is indirectly hoping to receive some response from you, the response as in Sharing your stuffs with her in the meantime.

During her down time, do not 24-7 smsed/msned/called her and ask her how are you? it's kind of lame and boring. Instead, you can try to share/ divert her intention away from the matter which she's troubling. Asking her out for everyday might not be a great solution after all. This is because she told you her personal stuffs, so indirectly when seeing you, she might remember sort of it. You guys might wondering, why don't i pretend not knowing it or as long as i do not mention bout it, it will be fine? No. Let me ask you, why don't you all wait for the girl to approach you for the next moment? instead of you keep bothering her?

It's true that if a girl approach you for the next day after she express her matter to you, the chances of she treating you as a "good friend" is high. She trust you, that's why she share her personal matter with you. So what you can do is to keep up the good work! Don't rush for the end by telling her that you love her. Work it out step by step! Good luck Guys!