How to hang out with a person that you love? How to make boost your popularity within the person that you love? It can be considered as a simple task for certain girls, but not all! Some even don't have any courage of expressing their love towards the person that he/she likes. However, as the society evolves, there's no longer a "one-way" direction of expressing love (boys showing their love to girls). Instead, it can be the other way round, where girls express their feelings towards the guys. For example: a guy might sms-ed /msn-ed you, telling you that he likes you for who you are. Instead, the girl can joke with the guy, saying that she has fall in love to him. There's normally 2 scenarios that will happen: the guys might treat it as a joke or the guys might treat it seriously.
The first step of expressing your love is always the way of getting closer to the person. Asking her/him out, treating him/her for a dinner, buying him/her little pressie to surprise thm, all these actions can lead to a great impact!
Another step might be so called "intrude" her personal life. This doesn't mean that you invade her own privacy. Instead, you can try to wait for an opportunity to cheer her up during her down time. This especially useful for guys when the girls are longing for companion to talk to and no one is trustable. So, if you guys have an honoured to talk to the girl which you like, DO APPRECIATE it and GIVE some proper advices or SHARE your own experience with her. Sharing is caring. Yes, it's true! When a girl trying to express her feeling to a person, she is indirectly hoping to receive some response from you, the response as in Sharing your stuffs with her in the meantime.
Another step might be so called "intrude" her personal life. This doesn't mean that you invade her own privacy. Instead, you can try to wait for an opportunity to cheer her up during her down time. This especially useful for guys when the girls are longing for companion to talk to and no one is trustable. So, if you guys have an honoured to talk to the girl which you like, DO APPRECIATE it and GIVE some proper advices or SHARE your own experience with her. Sharing is caring. Yes, it's true! When a girl trying to express her feeling to a person, she is indirectly hoping to receive some response from you, the response as in Sharing your stuffs with her in the meantime.
During her down time, do not 24-7 smsed/msned/called her and ask her how are you? it's kind of lame and boring. Instead, you can try to share/ divert her intention away from the matter which she's troubling. Asking her out for everyday might not be a great solution after all. This is because she told you her personal stuffs, so indirectly when seeing you, she might remember sort of it. You guys might wondering, why don't i pretend not knowing it or as long as i do not mention bout it, it will be fine? No. Let me ask you, why don't you all wait for the girl to approach you for the next moment? instead of you keep bothering her?
It's true that if a girl approach you for the next day after she express her matter to you, the chances of she treating you as a "good friend" is high. She trust you, that's why she share her personal matter with you. So what you can do is to keep up the good work! Don't rush for the end by telling her that you love her. Work it out step by step! Good luck Guys!
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